Help at the Time of Death - Bereavement Support

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Understanding and Supporting Bereavement

Resources Listings

Traumatic Grief - Supporting a Community Tragedy

When a tragedy strikes a community, especially one involving children, the emotional impact is far-reaching and causes traumatic grief. Find our practical tips for how communities can come together in the face of shared sorrow.

Dying for Beginners - The Dying Process

This video explains the dying process very gently so that we understand it better and can have conversations with friends and family about it.

Symptoms - The Physical Effects of Grief

Are you puzzled by the physical effects of grief? Sabine explains the hidden causes of common grief symptoms.

Bereavement Counselling - What You Need to Know

We provide some information here about what bereavement counselling is, what to expect and how to find a good counsellor that suits your needs. The information is helpfully provided by the Association of Christian Counsellors.

Rosemary for Remembrance - Mourning Cake

A recipe for how to bake a Rosemary for Remembrance Cake from Nigella Lawson’s book Feast. It’s perfect to bake for yourself or someone else who is in mourning.

Young People and - Traumatic Grief and Bereavement

In traumatic grief and bereavement, children and young people experience very strong emotions because of the meaning they make of the death.

How to Cope with a - Tragedy & Complicated Grief

Every death brings its own trauma to survivors. However, when someone is suddenly killed in an accident or murdered, the stress levels rise considerably for those left behind and this can cause what is known as complicated grief.

Traumatic Grief & - Bereavement Support

Trauma refers to the way that some distressing events are so extreme or shocking that they overwhelm a person’s ability to cope, resulting in lasting negative impact. This article contains information to help you understand and respond to people with traumatic grief.

What Is Effective - Bereavement Support?

This article explores effective bereavement support, how we can learn to offer it, and what it looks like.

Five Tips for Supporting - a Grieving Young Person

Here are five tips for supporting young people who are bereaved.

Different Circumstances

Resources Listings

Bereavement and Loss - in the LGBTQ+ Community

Switchboard explores the unique challenges LGBTQ+ people may face in bereavement, including disenfranchised grief, family estrangement and exclusion from mourning rituals.

Facing Father's Day - when a Father Died

Has your father died? The loss of a father, whether recent or long ago, can make Father’s Day especially painful. We offer some thoughts for how you might take care of yourself around Father’s Day.

Surviving Easter - as a Widow

Easter, like Christmas, is one of those times of year that can hit especially hard when you’re grieving. There’s the build-up, the family traditions, the messages of hope and renewal…and yet, for many of us (especially widows), it just highlights what’s missing.

Mother’s Day - Grief When a Parent Died

Like with many other days in the calendar, Mother’s Day can be very hard when we are grieving and an occasion which can trigger pain even many years after a death. Here are some things to consider for coping when a parent died.

Coping with Grief on Valentine’s Day - The Death of a Partner

For a lot of people Valentine’s Day is a time to celebrate love, romance and togetherness. But if you’ve lost a partner, the day can bring a renewed sense of grief and loneliness. This article explores coping with grief on Valentine’s Day.

Bereavement Support - in Older Age

Although losing a loved one is perhaps more common in later life, this doesn’t make it any easier to deal with. If someone you know has been bereaved, there are some simple things you can do to provide bereavement support.

Baby Loss - and Grief

Losing a baby is one of the most devastating experiences a person can go through. This article covers how to understand the impact of baby loss and how to help those who have gone through it.

Losing a Child - and Grieving

Grieving the death of a child, of any age, brings heartbreak and devastation. This article was written by Jane Harris and Jimmy Edmonds who set up the Good Grief Project following the death of their son, Josh.

Learning Disabilities - and Bereavement Support

This briefing is produced by Brake, the road safety charity. It aims to raise awareness of how people with learning disabilities experience grief, and provides advice on how to offer them bereavement support.

Autistic People and - Bereavement

There is not a great deal of research on how autistic people deal with bereavement. However there is useful advice available that can help us support anyone with autism, whatever their age.

Self Care

Resources Listings

Experiencing Grief? - Move More for Your Mental Health

Experiencing Grief? Movement can ease emotional pain, reduce stress, restore routine and foster connection, offering comfort and healing for those navigating bereavement.

Physical Manifestation of Grief - Understanding How Grief Affects the Brain

This article explores the physical manifestation of grief. Grief not only impacts our emotions but also brings significant changes to the brain, affecting memory, stress levels, and overall well-being.

Love Your Pet - Grief Support

In this article we acknowledge the value of pets in supporting grief and the pain we can also experience when they die.

Looking After Yourself - When You’re Mourning

After the funeral, everyone else's lives seem to go back to normal, and you may be left wondering how you're going to cope. Read on for advice on taking care of yourself, crucial for your future wellbeing and that of others, when you’re still mourning.

How to Cope with Grief - The Benefits of Grief Gardening

When you lose someone, the grief will never go away completely — so you may want to know how to cope with grief. Some people find that gardening as they grieve, known as grief gardening, can gently relieve some of the emotional and physical symptoms after the loss of a loved one.

Losing a Loved One - Coping When Bereaved

AtaLoss Subject Matter Expert, Sabine Horner is a nutritionist. Here she writes about how deep breathing can help us deal with the storms of emotion when we're bereaved.

Top Tips to Keep Well Hydrated - The Physical Effects of Grief

One of the most common physical effects of grief is reduced appetite and a lack of interest in drinking enough fluids. Meanwhile we can often cry a lot which depletes our hydration levels further. Sabine explains why keeping hydrated in grief is important and how that can be achieved.

Preventing Drastic - Weight Loss in Grief

Sabine Horner explains why eating can become a major issue after losing a loved one and experiencing grief. In the early days, for biological reasons most people who are grieving simply do not feel hungry.

Feeling the Physical Effects of Grief? - Nourish Your Body

Nutritionist Sabine Horner recommends ways to nourish your body when you are grieving.

Bereaved? Why We Can’t Stomach Food - Physical Signs of Grief

Lost your appetite? Of the many physical signs of grief, a decreased appetite and other food related issues are perhaps the most common. Learn what you can do about it.

Magnesium: Managing Symptoms - When Struggling with Grief

When we are struggling with grief one often-overlooked factor in managing the symptoms we experience, is ensuring we are getting enough magnesium. Magnesium is an essential mineral that plays a pivotal role in over 300 biological processes within the human body.

Practical Help

Resources Listings

Searching for a Relative - Loss of a Loved One

Struggling with the loss of loved one and need to find family members? When a relative dies, it can uncover the need to find lost or unknown family members - whether for legal, financial, or personal reasons. We explain how.

Writing a Will or Handling One When Bereaved

You might have to deal with the Will, money and property of the person who's died if you're a close friend or relative, or the executor of the Will. If you are anticipating your death you may be considering writing a will. We’ll talk about both aspects of Wills.

What to Do When - Someone Dies Abroad

What to do when someone dies abroad: there are a whole set of considerations to take into account. However, there are people to help you and you should seek their advice if you find yourself in this situation.

Registering a Death - What to do When Someone Dies

Need to know what to do when someone dies regarding registering the death? The death certificate is the official record that their life has ended and is the formal government record of that fact. We’ll explain how to proceed.

Protecting Against Identity Fraud - What to do When Someone Dies

Wondering what to do when someone dies and has their identity stolen? This advice might help you to prevent it.

Dealing with Belongings - What to do When Someone Dies

This article outlines what to do when someone dies and you need to deal with their belongings, it also covers what the legal rules may be.

Government Advice - What to do When Someone Dies

Do you need to know what to do when someone dies? There’s a lot of Government advice to help and support you during this difficult time. This article explains more.

Cancelling Mail

This is our guide to cancelling mail. Receiving post for the person who has died can be very difficult. Depending on the type of mail, there are a variety of practical measures you can take to deal with the problem.

How to Easily Cancel Official Documents - What to do When Someone Dies

Do you need to cancel official documents? We’ll tell you what to do when someone dies. Using the Government's ‘Tell Us Once’ service will ensure all government departments are informed. This includes passports, driving licenses, pensions, benefits, national insurance, tax and blue badges.

Benefits - and Bereavement

If you have been affected by bereavement there may be Government benefits you are now eligible for, especially if you are a partner or child of the deceased. Depending on which of your loved ones has died your tax allowances, National Insurance and benefits may change.

Funeral Planning

Resources Listings

Funerals: Find an Independent - Funeral Director near You

Understand how The National Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors (known as SAIF) can help.

Funerals: Everything a - Young Person Needs to Know

A useful film and book to help any young person understand funerals (burial and cremation) and decide whether to attend and what role they can play in saying goodbye to a loved one.

How to - Hold Your Own Memorial

If you have been bereaved and you can’t attend a funeral or have chosen not to do so you may want to hold your own memorial service for the person you have lost.

Funerals - How to Plan One

Our guide on how to plan a funeral. A funeral is an opportunity to create a special tribute to your loved one and whilst painful, can also be memorable and a positive experience.

Funeral Etiquette - in Different Faiths

If you are attending the funeral of someone of a different faith you can get advice here on, for example, what to expect, how to pay your respects, how to send condolences and what to wear to the funeral.

Help at the Time of Death - Bereavement Support

Understanding and Supporting Bereavement

Different Circumstances

Self Care

Practical Help

Funeral Planning

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